{"id":26900,"date":"2024-06-19T08:25:08","date_gmt":"2024-06-19T01:25:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/?p=26900"},"modified":"2024-06-19T08:25:56","modified_gmt":"2024-06-19T01:25:56","slug":"hay-dong-cam-se-chia-cung-nguoi-dong-tinh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/2024\/06\/19\/hay-dong-cam-se-chia-cung-nguoi-dong-tinh\/","title":{"rendered":"H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, s\u1ebb chia c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m \u00a0c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00f4 song, mang theo v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t phong c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o. Kh\u00f4ng ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1eeb khi m\u1edbi ra \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn cho vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Hi\u1ec7n nay, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh, song t\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh l\u00e0 tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi thu\u1ea7n phong m\u1ef9 t\u1ee5c, tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi l\u1ebd \u0111\u1eddi, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf. \u1ede ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh, do th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0u truy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y sang th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c, n\u00ean s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n c\u1ea3. H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u201cl\u1ec7ch chu\u1ea9n\u201d th\u00ec \u00a0b\u1ecb xem l\u00e0 sai, l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi soi m\u00f3i, tr\u00e1nh xa. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea5m \u00a0khi bi\u1ebft con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u1edbi. T\u1eeb khuy\u00ean b\u1ea3o, ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u01b0 c\u1ea5m ra ngo\u00e0i, \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n ch\u1eefa b\u1ec7nh, ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh cho con.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u1eeb s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e3 mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4n l\u01b0\u1eddng cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch che gi\u1ea5u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u1ed9 di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u1edf n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn. H\u1ecd lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i che gi\u1ea5u t\u1eebng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e9p k\u00edn, thu m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y g\u00e2y t\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu ho\u1eb7c \u1ee9c ch\u1ebf cho h\u1ecd. S\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hai m\u1eb7t. V\u00ec che gi\u1ea5u, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, sinh con; nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn duy tr\u00ec quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng trong nh\u1eefng v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc, khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh d\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i che gi\u1ea5u khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn d\u1ea1ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nhau \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i b\u00ed m\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c an to\u00e0n. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn r\u01b0\u1ee3u, ma t\u00fay ho\u1eb7c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 l\u00e0m t\u0103ng nguy c\u01a1 nhi\u1ec5m HIV ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh l\u00e2y truy\u1ec1n qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u1edf nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u1ea7n n\u00f3i th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb trong \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, do ch\u1ecbu qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ef1 t\u1eed. \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t, s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00edch, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 che ch\u1edf bao dung c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ng\u00e0y 17\/5\/1990, T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c Y t\u1ebf th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i b\u1ec7nh nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129. Hi\u1ec7n nay \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u qu\u1ed1c gia ph\u00ea duy\u1ec7t h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u1edbi, nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, ngay t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 n\u01a1i h\u00e0ng t\u1ec9 tr\u00e1i tim c\u00f9ng h\u00f2a chung nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ebb chia, \u0111\u00f9m b\u1ecdc; nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u00e1i tim \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o h\u00f2a chung nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1i tim \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n khao kh\u00e1t s\u1ef1 thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi – tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh. Cho n\u00ean m\u1ed7i l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft ch\u00fang ta d\u00f9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng thi\u1ebfu thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e1t dao \u0111\u00e2m xuy\u00ean qua tr\u00e1i tim h\u1ecd. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y, g\u00e2y \u00e1m \u1ea3nh h\u1ecd dai d\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft c\u1ee9a trong h\u1ed3i \u1ee9c. H\u00e3y l\u1eafng l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 suy ng\u1eabm, ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i v\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec h\u1ecd. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn \u0111ang lao \u0111\u1ed9ng, c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1eady th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe h\u1ecd. V\u00ec v\u1eady ta h\u00e3y dang r\u1ed9ng v\u00f2ng tay, b\u1edfi d\u00f9 l\u00e0 les hay gay chung quy c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u1ecd \u0111ang c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 bao dung, \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i .\/.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nguy\u1ec5n Minh Th\u1eddi – Trung t\u00e2m Y t\u1ebf T\u1ecbnh Bi\u00ean<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

M\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m \u00a0c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00f4 song, mang theo v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t phong c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o. Kh\u00f4ng ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1eeb khi m\u1edbi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":26901,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"limit_modified_date":"","last_modified_date":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[324],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26900","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bai-viet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26900","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26900"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26900\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26902,"href":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26900\/revisions\/26902"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26901"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26900"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26900"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cdcangiang.vn\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26900"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}